Despite everything being instant these days (texting, canned sandwiches, high-speed internet, get-rich-quick schemes), you have to give the relationship time to blossom, and it’s not going to happen overnight. You’re a great guy, so don’t blow it by proposing to the gal on the second date.
Unfortunately, I’ve heard of stuff like that happening. and then wallow in sadness with a canned sandwich and instant oatmeal. I’ve found that being straight up with how you feel yields awesome benefits. Chances are she’s already a little tender from stuff that’s happened in the past.
Rule #2: Cut the Crap and Quit Playing Games Playing games with your prospective partner’s emotions is reserved for teenagers. Being honest and having good communication skills, from what I’ve heard, are of HUGE importance if you want a successful relationship. What’s more enjoyable than a beautiful woman happily telling you about everything that she loves?
The female race is an elusive and intimidating breed. In fact, I would venture to say that there are times when even they don’t know what they’re thinking, so you have GOT to be on your toes. Once you think you’ve got them figured out, you get clocked in the head with their purse, and you have to look for another gal to date.
Now that you’ve got some fond (or not-so-fond) memories of dating bouncing around in your head, I’m going to throw another element into the mix that will make the dating game a little more advanced.