If you describe yourself as "athletic and toned" and you post photos with extra layers of tonnage, that probably isn't helping your cause.
Different body types are wonderful, and most people are fine with dating folks of varying shapes and sizes.
Plenty of people do.3) Photos of yourself when you were a little bit younger (five years? Let's operate on the assumption that we all think we looked better when we were in college.
Make your primary photo a good one, just not the best.2) This next point would seem utterly obvious, and yet, apparently it isn't: Don't include bad photos!
I'm not talking about photos of you making a funny face, though I don't quite see the point of those, but why include photos that simply aren't flattering? Photos of you when you were 21 (if you're now 60) are pointless.
Yes, there is more to dating and mating and enjoying a relationship than physical attraction, so no need to point that out.
And yes, these bits of advice apply to both women and men.
Sometimes it is important to get back to basics in the over-50 dating game.