summarized for those who don’t like long stories: - easily connect on an intuitive level - both like to create structure and order - might see each other as stubborn after some time - need to work on listening to each other while making decisions, and not just listening, but also taking each other's opinions into account - the ENTJ might not be able to meet the ENFJ's idealized standards for love and affection, especially for spoken words of affection because ENTJs believe actions speak louder than words (most ENTJ males would rather spell “I love you” with jet exhaust trails than say it out loud) - the ENTJ has to try to be less critical and argumentative and the ENFJ has to try to be less threatened by conflict and criticism - if the ENFJ is immature, the ENTJ will see her as emotionally manipulative, clingy or even two-faced - if the ENTJ is immature the ENFJ will see her as selfish, arrogant and stubborn ENTJ ENFJ relationship – long story Although it’s not the top choice by theory, this MBTI match is one of the better ones – mainly because both types are , which can result in almost magnetic attraction.
However, that “oh you’re so weird I like you” (N) attraction can sometimes only be short term if the persons involved realize that they have incompatible values and world views.
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While this is certainly desirable from a Js perspective, they would have to consciously introduce some spontaneity into their life.