I have seen “[Cams dot com]”on our bank records and I asked him about it. I didn’t believe it so I checked it out and came to find out it was live porn chat he was paying for! One night I took him out with friends and wanted to go home to have “us time,” but he said he didn’t feel like it.
He said throwing a tissue away as he is throwing his phone on the bed. So I reach down and he is exposed and erect so I was like “yeah, you’re really throwing something away.” We fought, he took his phone and slammed it on the ground and shattered it then had me (5 months pregnant) shoved up on the wall yelling at me because I caught him.
I couldn’t trust him and I still can’t trust him because I’ve caught him on it multiple times after.
You have a right to know what’s going on in your marriage!
He says he is too tired to have sex when I want to or he just flat out says “no! Dear Confused & Hurt, First and foremost, any man that lays a hand on a pregnant woman is no respectable man. Getting defensive is a good indication you are not being told the truth.
I can definitely understand your trust issues, especially when you have indicated to him that what he is doing is inappropriate and he is still continuing his in your marriage.