Stop Looking for "the One""Frank, how will I know when I find 'the one'? If you need to take a minute to let that sink in, I will be here when you get back. Here's the deal: God doesn't set up marriage as a divine lottery where every person has one winning ticket.
If you are a Christian, there is no reason to date without a trajectory towards marriage. Dating with a trajectory toward marriage means dating with a purpose.
It means dating with an understanding of the gospel.
Laying out guidelines for dating as followers of Jesus could alter the lives of men and women by keeping them out of toxic and unhealthy relationships (and ultimately marriages).
Most importantly, guidelines and principles for dating could transform lives and shape eternities. And we have a responsibility as men and women of God to be pro-active.
And discovering one flaw means it's time to move on.