If you don't know what you're doing, you'll find yourself experiencing a lot of awkward silences, where you are desperately fishing in your head for something to say, while she sits there looking awkward. To get to the root of the problem, you have to understand why she is shy.
Shyness in itself isn't an problem, but if a man is so shy that he can't keep a conversation going or his body language and eye contact are closed off, then most women aren't going stick around to coax him out of his shell. You can be a criminal, unemployed, violent, abusive, rude, or have a string of mothers hounding you for child support.... Men need to realize this and accept they have two choices: either stay shy and never get dates; or, gain confidence and start going after what you want. You can most likely be shy, but also confident at the same time.
you can be any of these things you and will still get women. Every single one of my friends who complain they can't get women never try. When you're looking for a job you don't get employers approaching you. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum.
Anyone who's tried attracting shy girls can vouch for how hard it can be.
It's difficult when someone is too shy to open up easily, to offer information about themselves, to tell stories, or just to keep the conversation going.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. You can be a criminal, unemployed, violent, abusive, rude, or have a string of mothers hounding you for child support.... Men need to realize this and accept they have two choices: either stay shy and never get dates; or, gain confidence and start going after what you want. I tend to be clingy and emotional, and women are SO mean to me. It's true that it would be difficult to get anything going with a guy that was too shy to even approach me (I'm not very forward myself), but the shyness in itself isn't the problem.